Pantie Shopping

I have five pair of all black cotton panties that I save for that once a month treat that leaves me bloated, emotional, tired and cranky. Then I have all these frilly thong thingies with bows and lace and hearts and ties and such in pretty pastel colors. Problem is that I find myself gravitating towards the black "panties of death" (as my husband calls them) to wear all the time. There was a time when the black panties signaled for him to stay away, now they're just in regular rotation so he can't keep up. They're sooooo comfy! I'm at the point where my comfort level is a priority on a day to day basis. The frillies are for outfits that require no pantie line or for nights/days when sexy-time is imminent.

So I figured I needed to step my game up, like ASAP. Went pantie shopping this weekend and bought what I thought were a great solution to my comfort needs while not totally foregoing the sexiness. Got a handful of boy shorts with all the pastel, lacy details that should send a clear signal to my husband that it is ok to proceed...

Washed them all on Sunday and wore the first pair yesterday! They were this soft nylon/spandex material with lace around the edges. I put them on and immediately felt I'd nailed it. I found the perfect pair of comfortable yet sexy panties!!

The evening came. My husband was laying on the bed waiting for me to change and join him. Stripped down to my panties that I was so proud of and he yells. <--- yells:

"Those are ugly. I hate that color. Mooooo!!" <--- not boooo as in I don't like them, but Moooo as in the sound a fucking cow makes.

My mouth fell open, felt my cheeks tingle and I said, "Awww." (that's all I could come up with)

He says, "I hate those. Take them off. Yuck. Mooooo!"

I try to defend my new panties by saying "Touch them they're so soft. You'll love the way they feel."

He refused to touch them. He also refused to touch me when I laid in the bed with them on. And so I refused to take them off. There was no sexy-time to be had last night.

*My husband is generally a kind, gentle man so when he acts a fool like he did last night, its usually for good reason. So maybe I didn't nail the balance of comfy/sexy like I thought I had. Back to the drawing board I guess...(but in the meantime I will revel in my new fav panties and wear them as often as I want :)