RIP Michael Jackson

Like many others, I share the sorrow in the loss of a fashion and music icon, Michael Jackson. He's had an immeasurable impact on millions of people's lives for four decades. My initial thoughts on his public memorial service was that it was going to be a complete exploitation of the King. However, after viewing it on TV, I was beyond impressed with the classiness and professionalism of the service. I couldn't see sending him off any other way. If anyone deserves it -- he does. Not only because of his influence on almost every entertainer alive, but also for his massive humanitarian efforts.

If one more person thinks it appropriate to ask my why I'm mourning a child molester I think I might catch a case. If the man was never charged of a crime, why are people so quick to believe allegations? Because its sensational and easy to think that because he was a bit strange that he can do such things. If we are to believe that MJ paid them off then we need to question the integrity of these parents of the children who were allegedly victimized. If anyone molested my one of my children there is no amount of money that would make me drop the charges. Either way I don't rush to believe allegations or rumors unless there's proof. We never got the proof, but in some people's minds he's guilty. And because of this his death doesn't need to be mourned.

Schadenfreude - This is a German word that loosely translates to "finding delight in other's misfortune" particularly highly recognizable or famous people. This is why gossip magazines and blogs are all the rage right now. We love to see celebrities embarrass themselves. Love to see them caught without their makeup so we can realize how unattractive they "really" are.

I do not love to see Michael Jackson's accomplishments thrown out the window because of unfounded, allegations and rumors.

I love you Michael!!