My husband and I got into a huge blowout over this just yesterday. I want to go on a four day cruise to the Bahamas with my girlfriends but he thinks that as a married woman that's inappropriate. I see his point of view, but I'm more of a realist. He believes that there will be a lot of partying and drinking in skimpy clothes and its just plain trouble. I believe that if I wanted to cheat or be inappropriate, honey... I don't have to go to the Bahamas to do it.
So he and I had it out via text message alllll day long yesterday. Him saying that it's not the fact that I want to go away without him but because of the "way I was talking to him". Me, knowing damn well it was just purely him picturing me in my bathing suit jaunting around with a pina colada in my hand on a beach while he's home schlepping the kids around. The argument got pretty ugly. He said things to me that have never come from his mouth...ever!
When he got home from work he walked through the door with a bouquet of flowers and some warming massage oil. We made up. It's all good and I'm going on the cruise :-) But sheesh - it'll be a long time before I fix my mouth to say I'm going on vacation with the girls. Evidently that's not too cool within a marriage?! I suppose... Or maybe its just within my marriage that its not cool? Either way I have to respect his wishes. After all, not many men are equip to put up with my brand of crazy. He's a keeper :-)
yeah i agree with you but there is always times where you put yourself in a position where your marriage is compromised more than others. going out on the town and then bringing ya ass back home that night is fine but going away for days can be a little too much. and plus who wants to be stuck with your CRAZy little ones? lol go be good, and come back with some goodies for the man who actucally chose to deal with your pyschotic madness! lol you deserve a vacation alone and he deserves to rewarded for letting you go!
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